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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Mon Apr 16, 2012 8:30 pm

What about, if a girl constantly keeps giving you hugs every time she sees you, and doesn't reject when you ask for another one?
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Mon Apr 16, 2012 8:32 pm

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Once I asked a guy how I should let a guy in a bar know I'm interested. His answer was "Look at him." That was it. Literally just look at him and that was enough to make a guy think he has a chance with you apparently. Another guy friend said that if you're simply talking to a guy he thinks he has a shot.

Your thoughts?

That's what I mean, you basically have to make "the world about them" Avoid trying to say no to stuff as much as possible. And if you truely have to cancel or can't do something make a counter arrangement. Don't say something like

"I'd love to, maybe another time"

actually pick the date and time!

"I'd love to but how about this friday?"

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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Mon Apr 16, 2012 8:40 pm

Yes- be specific. I agree.


Jimmy- I get hugs from married guys I know every time I see them. It means absolutely nothing. There's your damn answer.
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Mon Apr 16, 2012 9:08 pm

Dammit. I really want her to like me.
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Mon Apr 16, 2012 9:48 pm

Shut up, Jimmy.
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Mon Apr 16, 2012 10:04 pm

Camus wrote:
steph wrote:
JimmyB wrote:
plugga wrote:
well no one is supposed to do anything, I did ask a guy out a couple of times scratch
I meant traditionally it is supposed to be the guy asking the girl out. A lot of girls think this is still now it should be.

shut up, it wouldn't matter, you would just complain about no one asking you out.

anyways. i don't know if i could ask someone out. silent

If you did I would simply respond with a wink Razz

haha. and then i would laugh. and wink back. and then not know what to do. and be really awkward and walk away Razz

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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Tue Apr 17, 2012 6:29 am

NeverTrustAJunkie wrote:
Once I asked a guy how I should let a guy in a bar know I'm interested. His answer was "Look at him." That was it. Literally just look at him and that was enough to make a guy think he has a chance with you apparently. Another guy friend said that if you're simply talking to a guy he thinks he has a shot.

Your thoughts?
you smile too! you've seen movies/how i met your mother. they always have that shot of the girl across the room who suddenly makes eye contact and smiles. just do that!
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Tue Apr 17, 2012 6:38 am

Yeah, but that's TV! I think real life is more subtle and more complicated.
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Tue Apr 17, 2012 6:41 am

if a girl catches a guy's eye from across the room and smiles at him i think that's a pretty clear signal. don't get more simple than that!
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Tue Apr 17, 2012 6:46 am

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zblpww1cJqQ&feature=relmfu

skip to 1.10, that's the look you're looking for Smile
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Tue Apr 17, 2012 2:34 pm

I'll be seeing Lucero shortly. I'll try it out on Ben Nichols Laughing Of course looking like her would probably help! Wink
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Tue Apr 17, 2012 2:36 pm

damn I loooooove Mary. And Ramona. And that movie.
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Tue Apr 17, 2012 5:34 pm

Yep. Just like I thought, the said girl who gives me hugs all the time just posted that she was with the "most amazing boy ever" and I am nowhere around where she is. I think this is probably a sign she found someone else.
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Tue Apr 17, 2012 5:35 pm

JimmyB wrote:
Yep. Just like I thought, the said girl who gives me hugs all the time just posted that she was with the "most amazing boy ever" and I am nowhere around where she is. I think this is probably a sign she found someone else.

Okay.
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Tue Apr 17, 2012 5:47 pm

Camus wrote:
JimmyB wrote:
Yep. Just like I thought, the said girl who gives me hugs all the time just posted that she was with the "most amazing boy ever" and I am nowhere around where she is. I think this is probably a sign she found someone else.

Okay.

Okay.

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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Tue Apr 17, 2012 5:53 pm

What do you guys think? Still may have a shot, or should I give up on her?
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Tue Apr 17, 2012 5:53 pm

hugs seriously don't always mean something other than HUGS so idk if she likes someone else just give up.
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Tue Apr 17, 2012 6:00 pm

Jimmy, you're always looking outwardly for approval....

People will approve of you as soon as you are able to look inward and be happy with who you are...

This girl clearly is a lost cause, don't worry about girls, take care of yourself, find ways to love yourself....

Once you start loving yourself, lots of other people will catch on too...

If you're really struggling with your own self-image, thoughts and feelings about yourself, seeing a counselor/psychologist can really help you learn more about yourself so you can change the things you're not happy with
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Tue Apr 17, 2012 7:14 pm

Jimmy- You are girl crazy and it is WAY too important to you to have a girlfriend. You know what happens when you are this desperate? Eventually some girl is going to agree to be your girlfriend because she can see she can walk all over you and she will steal your soul. But you'll put up with it because you're so happy someone likes you back. I am telling you this is the direction you are headed.

Hugs are meaningless and sometimes so is sex.
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Tue Apr 17, 2012 7:15 pm

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Jimmy- You are girl crazy and it is WAY too important to you to have a girlfriend. You know what happens when you are this desperate? Eventually some girl is going to agree to be your girlfriend because she can see she can walk all over you and she will steal your soul. But you'll put up with it because you're so happy someone likes you back. I am telling you this is the direction you are headed.

Hugs are meaningless and sometimes so is sex.

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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Tue Apr 17, 2012 7:32 pm

DAMMIT

Let's talk about YOU Debonair. We spent too much time on me and my boy laziness. What's your story.
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Tue Apr 17, 2012 7:37 pm

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DAMMIT

Let's talk about YOU Debonair. We spent too much time on me and my boy laziness. What's your story.

Just a city boy born and raised in south Detroit and i took the midnight train goin' anywhere.

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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Tue Apr 17, 2012 7:44 pm

FANTASTIC.
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Tue Apr 17, 2012 7:45 pm

Let's talk about people we're attracted to and don't know why. Me: Pete Campbell on Mad Men.
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Tue Apr 17, 2012 7:47 pm

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Let's talk about people we're attracted to and don't know why. Me: Pete Campbell on Mad Men.

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