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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Wed Mar 07, 2012 6:59 pm

Was it not obvious the two hours I was referring to were DURING the movie Suspect

I went on that date because I caved into peer pressure. Never again!

Anyway, what about a road trip to somewhere else that's cheap/free? If you're having fun, who cares if you're going to the same place all the time. I'm sure she doesn't care as long as you're there. Bending and snapping of course. That's probably the real main attraction, not where you're going Wink


I am of the belief that if a relationship is born out of drama it will be nothing but drama the whole time. So in time you'll see that the universe was doing you a favor not letting you have this guy. Caution is good but don't be TOO paranoid. If it feels right, go with it! I think that other guy felt right because he was giving mutual signals back and that made you trust the situation. Then he dropped that BS on you and made you feel terrible. F that guy and the horse he rode in on (not literally).
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Wed Mar 07, 2012 7:08 pm

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Thanks, steph! I think I really needed to meet someone in order to start getting over the idiot because he is seriously denying anything happened and I don't want to deal with that.

People say that so they don't have anything to feel bad about. Like, turn it on you and make you feel crazy you thought anything was there. He sounds like a jerkface. Good riddance.
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Wed Mar 07, 2012 8:55 pm

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redskynight wrote:
Thanks, steph! I think I really needed to meet someone in order to start getting over the idiot because he is seriously denying anything happened and I don't want to deal with that.

People say that so they don't have anything to feel bad about. Like, turn it on you and make you feel crazy you thought anything was there. He sounds like a jerkface. Good riddance.

Basically. I hope it catches up to him and it consumes his head.
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Wed Mar 07, 2012 9:04 pm

LOL!

I know how you feel cus I've had that experience. I was made to feel like one of those "clingy" girls which is not how I am at all. I like my space probably more than anyone I know! If you felt like something was happening, it probably was. He most likely feels guilty and is showing his true colors. Don't let him make you feel like you're the weird one. He is! You don't act like that when you have a girlfriend and that's that.
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Wed Mar 07, 2012 9:18 pm

It's funny in a way- how just a few days ago this guy was awesome and now he's being a doofus. It's true- there is a fine line between love and hate!
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Wed Mar 07, 2012 9:25 pm

Totally not feeling like the weird one here. I took women's/gender/sexuality studies and my friend did, too along with psychology, so I have ... a lot of insight into how people act. And the fact that he told me a lot about himself that night shows me that he's just a truly stupid boy. And that's fine. I didn't do shit, so I'm not at fault he is, especially since he's the one who was making moves.

A part of me still thinks he's awesome and that it's just the wrong time. I'd give him a second chance, but only if he doesn't fuck up. And I'd be cautious. But right now? Nope. Not waiting on that shit.
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Wed Mar 07, 2012 9:45 pm

Once you understand human behavior, people suddenly seem a lot less complicated!
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Wed Mar 07, 2012 9:54 pm

Ahahah, exactly! But then there's that element of "STOP PSYCHOANALYZING EVERYTHING." Which I am guilty of.
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Fri Mar 09, 2012 5:45 pm

I've got a casual friendly "date" with a boy on Tuesday at a baseball game (which is where we met in the first place). Welp.
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Fri Mar 09, 2012 5:47 pm

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I've got a casual friendly "date" with a boy on Tuesday at a baseball game (which is where we met in the first place). Welp.

to shave the legs or not to shave the legs...
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Fri Mar 09, 2012 5:48 pm

steph wrote:
redskynight wrote:
I've got a casual friendly "date" with a boy on Tuesday at a baseball game (which is where we met in the first place). Welp.

to shave the legs or not to shave the legs...

lol!
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Fri Mar 09, 2012 5:52 pm

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redskynight wrote:
I've got a casual friendly "date" with a boy on Tuesday at a baseball game (which is where we met in the first place). Welp.

to shave the legs or not to shave the legs...
HAHAHAHAHA. oh dear.
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Sun Mar 11, 2012 4:41 pm

My life is totally a bad romantic comedy right now because my friend just saw my ex yesterday. And this morning. And told her that he says hi to me.
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Sun Mar 11, 2012 4:49 pm

He just said hello. No big deal Wink

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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Sun Mar 11, 2012 4:58 pm

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He just said hello. No big deal Wink

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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Sun Mar 11, 2012 5:04 pm

NeverTrustAJunkie wrote:
He just said hello. No big deal Wink

Hah, true, true. I think I'm overanalyzing things because wow my week with guys is absurd.
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Sun Mar 11, 2012 6:36 pm

well I struck out again....I am living in a romantic drama.
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Sun Mar 11, 2012 6:41 pm

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well I struck out again....I am living in a romantic drama.
Nobody cares.
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Sun Mar 11, 2012 6:46 pm

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well I struck out again....I am living in a romantic drama.
just take yourself out on a date, it's the best thing to do. you're always around, you ain't no fool you're always going to say yes. no need to be cheap either you can take yourself someplace nice. drive home stick some smooth music on the radio, maybe chat yourself up a bit. you know, "i like your perfume" and all that slick talk. then you can invite yourself in for coffee and well, there's no way around it, you end up taking advantage of yourself! there's no shame it, as long as you don't get weird and tie yourself up anything.
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Sun Mar 11, 2012 7:17 pm

Labhras wrote:
JimmyB wrote:
well I struck out again....I am living in a romantic drama.
just take yourself out on a date, it's the best thing to do. you're always around, you ain't no fool you're always going to say yes. no need to be cheap either you can take yourself someplace nice. drive home stick some smooth music on the radio, maybe chat yourself up a bit. you know, "i like your perfume" and all that slick talk. then you can invite yourself in for coffee and well, there's no way around it, you end up taking advantage of yourself! there's no shame it, as long as you don't get weird and tie yourself up anything.

I might try this method Wink Good advice. lol!
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Sun Mar 11, 2012 7:35 pm

No risk of stds or babies either!
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Mon Mar 12, 2012 1:43 am

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just take yourself out on a date, it's the best thing to do. you're always around, you ain't no fool you're always going to say yes. no need to be cheap either you can take yourself someplace nice. drive home stick some smooth music on the radio, maybe chat yourself up a bit. you know, "i like your perfume" and all that slick talk. then you can invite yourself in for coffee and well, there's no way around it, you end up taking advantage of yourself! there's no shame it, as long as you don't get weird and tie yourself up anything.

i love it. Razz you are so weird...
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Mon Mar 12, 2012 1:45 am

steph wrote:
Labhras wrote:

just take yourself out on a date, it's the best thing to do. you're always around, you ain't no fool you're always going to say yes. no need to be cheap either you can take yourself someplace nice. drive home stick some smooth music on the radio, maybe chat yourself up a bit. you know, "i like your perfume" and all that slick talk. then you can invite yourself in for coffee and well, there's no way around it, you end up taking advantage of yourself! there's no shame it, as long as you don't get weird and tie yourself up anything.

i love it. Razz you are so weird...

Sounds like a good idea. I guess I am going on a date this weekend then!!
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Mon Mar 12, 2012 1:47 am

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steph wrote:
Labhras wrote:

just take yourself out on a date, it's the best thing to do. you're always around, you ain't no fool you're always going to say yes. no need to be cheap either you can take yourself someplace nice. drive home stick some smooth music on the radio, maybe chat yourself up a bit. you know, "i like your perfume" and all that slick talk. then you can invite yourself in for coffee and well, there's no way around it, you end up taking advantage of yourself! there's no shame it, as long as you don't get weird and tie yourself up anything.

i love it. Razz you are so weird...

Sounds like a good idea. I guess I am going on a date this weekend then!!
Razz me too!
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PostSubject: Re: romance issues   Mon Mar 12, 2012 1:49 am

steph wrote:
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steph wrote:
Labhras wrote:

just take yourself out on a date, it's the best thing to do. you're always around, you ain't no fool you're always going to say yes. no need to be cheap either you can take yourself someplace nice. drive home stick some smooth music on the radio, maybe chat yourself up a bit. you know, "i like your perfume" and all that slick talk. then you can invite yourself in for coffee and well, there's no way around it, you end up taking advantage of yourself! there's no shame it, as long as you don't get weird and tie yourself up anything.

i love it. Razz you are so weird...

Sounds like a good idea. I guess I am going on a date this weekend then!!
Razz me too!

Also, I find that taking a class helps.... once you're caught up in your new hobby, you will focus less on wanting to be on a date. :-)

I just started learning french and it really takes up a lot of my time... pretty much almost every other minute!!
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